The term "Break up"

 (That fu**ed up moment, Tears me up inside when i remember)

The term "Break Up", Is most likely to be the most dramatic, traumatic and Heartbreaking word we will ever hear in most points of relationships, specially when you are the person who is most concerned if this relationship. Although some people doesn't really give a damn about this (Specially does who aren't really serious about commitment), but you can't really say that it doesn't really hurt most specially when you cared so much for the person or you've really committed your self to this to the person (Or, You've developed feelings for that person)

The phrase " How do you say goodbye without hurting someone/any one" stuck in my mind before. I'm this type of person who constantly falls in love and consistently falling out. It's like i always play the game of risks, committing everything to this damn game and afterwards, lose. It's like making the most stupid bet of my life. It kinda sucks that i actually never won anything from this game but i almost thought that i won't get tired of playing such retarded game of love. Ergo, We must take it in mind that "Love" is not logic. No matter how much you use your brain to strategies, research on how to develop a better relationship and practicing all of these things, It won't matter because in this game... The word "Change" is inevitable and the only way to resolve this is constant adjustment and acceptance.

Most lovers, (Especially in High school and most college student) tends to break up after months or years of their relationship. Even if they are really compatible or really meant for each other, i guess the element of "Preparedness' is needed. Most of people who are attached to someone only wants a relationship because;

• It is something in trend or because most people have relationship.
• Pity (Because the one courting you has waited for you for years and it's kinda pityful to dump him/her or he/she is a friend)
• You're only attracted to the person.
• It's sad being lonely.

And so much more, but in my perspective... I think the only valid reason why people should be in a relationship because " In this world we are about 6.8 billion people in this world, and all of us are called individual, We are all here but it feels so lonely, after all we are strangers and there is a fact there is such fact that No man is an island, It is kind of a nice feeling to know that in that 6.8 billion population there is one person who is actually that person who is willing to accept and adjust for you just to be with you untill you both die." Well this is from my perspective, I'm not really a fan of Destiny or faith, but i simply believe that life has so much to offer to everyone of us and one of these offer is having someone who'll appreciate you for you. I know this is apart of me that shouts out my human satisfactory, and i know everyone of us also wants to feel and to obtain such. Even if you had your self a self-proclaimed "Forever alone" or someone who simply shuts their door in the opportunity of romance just because you don't have time or your scared of commitment, I'm not against in what ever but Love is something life offers. It is something incredible, something beautiful that even when you fall down and break, it remains beautiful because you learned something from it. It is the experiences that makes life worth living and magical. It is a fulfillment and what more fulfilling is the thought of sharing this with someone.

The term "Break up" is something heart breaking, Hope losing and dramatic.Although this type of drama will always be present. But if you appreciate all the things in life, even through the bad ones. You'll find up the term Break up isn't that bad after all. Even if it hurts at first you still learn, stand up and choose to love and to live life. 

Life is all about the choices we make in our lives.Everything that happens in your life are all results if your choices. Even through the good or bad results you must learn to appreciate and adjust. Because this is how you must love life. This is how you must love. By this, When you learn to appreciate life, Learn to adjust and be humble. Then i can say that you are ready to Love again.

Love, 

Chiya

Acknowledgements:

Starbucks;SM Fairview 2nd floor.

- for letting me stay and drink almost 2 venti cups of Iced Coffee americano with White cream! Which is nice btw. Highly recommended to all who searches for something strong,yet light and sugary. Great for cooping with stress and for self pleasure. (Only for 150. Venti sized though [ A.N; I am a coffee addict and you can almost see me through any cafe shop in the city])